Posted by ccampbell in Sex, Romance & Life | 17 Comments
I’ve Got Big Boobs and I Cannot Lie…
Yum Yum’s.
Ta Ta’s.
Fun Bags.
Call them what you will.
Mine came courtesy of my surgeon’s skillful touch this past spring… And nothing about me is embarrassed of that fact.
Am I supposed to be?
Sometimes, I think I am.
Did you know that women who engage in any sort of plastic surgery do so because of their incredible self-esteem limitations and are trying to cover up massive insecurity (I think I heard Oprah say that).
And that women should work at loving themselves exactly as they are and learn to feel beautiful no matter what (after all, beauty comes from the inside, says Ann Landers).
You should also be fully aware of the fact that women who spend an afternoon getting saline pumped into their boobs and then 7-days recovering are shallow, narcissistic and vain (according to the sages of feminine wisdom).
My friends, the great Women’s Liberation Movement is alive and well…
… But the message has become diluted, judgmental and turncoat.
For the record, I have not experienced one email, phone call or correspondence from anyone in my life indicating that my decision to undergo breast augmentation who due to my apparent lack in self-worth.
This blog is not about me launching a counter-attack in defense of any assailants who have wronged me or attempted to discredit my motives.
It’s simply a message that is enormously and undeniably long overdue……
Equal rights for women should be a no-brainer.
Equal pay a definitive.
Our Great Grandmothers fought hard and willingly for the vote.
They stood up against gender oppression and radical unfairness from a male dominated society.
And they did so in the face of ridicule, condemnation and in many cases physical threat (did you know that the common phrase ‘rule of thumb’ is derived from Old English and was a law in Medieval Times that stated a man could beat his spouse with any instrument so long as it was not thicker than the width of his thumb?).
And yet here we stand. Generations later, the benefactors of their incredible fight.
Having paid no debt of our own to gain the rightful liberties we enjoy today and maintain scant more than a weak understanding of what it must to have been like to confront and challenge the status quo…
… But we have become the greatest of villains in undermining their noble quest.
We have chosen to pollute the waters that served as battle ground for the struggle.
And we’ve done so because of our self-authorized and aggrandizing decision to JUDGE our sisters rather than ACCEPT that the defining message our foremothers fought for was simply this….
CHOICE.
The ability and freedom to choose what you want to do.
In every capacity.
Emancipated from ridicule and condemnation – the way it was always supposed to be.
They battled so we didn’t have to.
They risked so we could gain.
They were firm so we could bask in the conviction of making decisions for ourselves.
And what we have chosen is to dishonor their sacrifices.
Throw salt in their open wounds.
Kick sand in their now ghostly and long-forgotten faces.
“Can you believe Sally is wearing that?”
“She got plastic surgery? She is SO insecure”
“What a slut…”
Choice in the absence of judgment.
Self-guided options without negativity or verdict from self-anointed guardians of righteous.
Our freedom to choose is not as free as it should be.
But this time, it’s because of our own doing.
Stay Sexy,
C2
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You look great, and if you feel great about yourself thats what counts, if I didn’t have so many house renovations to do I would have it done also, I have always wanted to have my boobs fixed. It is in my near future plans. Would love to know where you went to have it done. Dani
When you are ready to go for it let me know!! I found my plastic surgeon through a referral to someone I know well and it turned out to be a great referral! He was awesome and the price was right!!
Oh I hear you! I’ve got a pair of my own, also a work of art from my surgeon, and they are a choice that I can honestly say I am happy with every single day.
I was not born with a plentiful bosom but I was content with the small perky ones I had pre-kids. After breast feeding my two beautiful daughters, they were ravaged.
I didn’t have any self esteem issues when thinking about getting an augmentation and was not doing it because I thought I would love myself more. I did it because I deserved to look as good on the outside as I felt inside.
Of course I get the stares and snares of some women who cannot bring it upon themselves to acknowledge they look good. I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s for two reasons: 1) They are jealous because they have a self esteem issue or 2) They don’t know what it’s like to have had them massacred by two tiny greedy mouths.
I recall an episode when I went to Cancun. I went topless and I could clearly hear one girl by the pool bitching to her boyfriend about me saying “Look at her showing off her fake boobs… who does she think she is? Tori Spelling?”. Funny how she wasn’t commenting on the other topless women around, some were older and gravity had taken it’s toll, some were overweight, some had practically no breasts at all, but she chose to comment on me because she was insecure about my presence around her boyfriend.
So all in all, I can’t agree more with what you’ve written! To each his own. What does it change in the lives of others what we chose to do with our bodies, our lives?
MJ
You go girl. I totally agree to each his own. After having two kids and always being a small cup I too wish to have bigger boobs. It’s not because I don’t feel confident and beautiful inside and out its because hell if I can feel even better why not.
GIRLS ROCK!!!
Its funny to read this.. I had my breast reduced in size.. as they were too large then what I was “used to”.. If I can use that term..
The gov’t covered the cost if they were able to removed 350 grams per breast.. or more…
My surgeon claimed it was a “health matter”.. as it was causing back aches, dents on my shoulders from my bra straps and the list went on and on…
Could the phrase “health matter” not be used when adding to ones self esteem.. or in helping to restore woman to her preferred body type??? and why would the gov’t not help in covering some of the costs…
My point is, that no one ever made a comment to me about having my breast reduced, why would anyone say anything about getting them enlarged…
Small minds are those with the largest amount of remarks and comments…
That is a great point Christina!! No one would ever comment on taking away….thanks for sharing that I had never thought about that!
Its hard to ignore public comments, but ignorance is still running rampant! Congrats to you all, its not easy being a woman. Trust me I know – I spent 12 years with one and I can tell u that female cattiness in social settings is a tough one. All my girlfriend wanted to do was make friends but her looks put up a barrier with other women.
Ps- I’ve never heard a man make a negative comment about a) breast enlargement, b) showing them off in public.
Xo,
JF
I have been thinking about this. But I have one question. I have extremely sensitive nipples. I can orgasm just from my boyfriend playing with them. Will implants affect the sensitivity at all?
From what I understand every woman is different regarding nipple sensitivity after implants. And hey…can I add, lucky you! lol
As Carrie said, every woman is different but speaking of my own experience, it hasn’t changed anything for me. I still get the same pleasure. I imagine it might also have to do with the method of implantation. I had them inserted under the muscle and from the fold under my breasts.
I might also add that I actually experience more pleasure cause the sight of my own breasts now turns on! Lol!
Hi, first of all, thanks for following me on blog frog, I am honored.
From a male’s perspective, I think we are more or less on the same level when it concerns the beauty and sex appeal of the girl next door. In my opinion there is no, and I repeat, no difference what so ever between the average sexy celebrity and the average girl next door, except maybe for the bank balance. Any girl that truly puts her mind to it, can look sexy, attractive and beautiful.
About the implants, if you visit my blog, you will see that I am not that much a boobs guy, more a leg guy, but I can appreciate a nice pair of boobs, without staring, I have to add…lol….
If my wife can put her hands on enough money, she will have boobs implants done tomorrow, and I will support her, and even pay for it if I can afford it.
I have to compliment you on your writing skills, you have talent, I hope that you will one day publish a book where you are the sole author, in the same breath I also wanna wish you everything of the best with your book!
About your post on gladiator sandals, again from my blog you will see I am a heels fan, and I am in the fortunate position that my wife loves heels, I have posted quite a few pics of her on my blog. However, a girl cannot go everywhere wearing heels, and I dont mind if she wears flats, as long as they are feminine, and the gladiators you posted are quite feminine. If those are your legs, I would be so bold as to say, from what I can see, you have very nice legs also… lol…. Now, I think the man in your life must be very proud walking next to you. Not being a boobs kinda guy I also have to compliment you on yours, they do look stunning, and you can flaunt them with pride.
Ooops, I have hogged your space, but that said, I think I have basically told you how I feel, and I hope to see you visit my site, I think you will enjoy it.
Have a lovely day!
Colin.
Ps, I watched some of your videos, great stuff, you have lots of confidence!
Hey Colin!! Thanks for all the input…and commentary
It is so wonderful to have a mans perspective on all things “How Does She Do It Mom”. No worries about hogging space, that is what the comment box is there for. I am definitely going to check out your blog…probably as soon as I am done posting this reply….
Be sure to treat the scar with essential oils! I have seen in my practice so many cases of shoulder and neck pain stemming from a scar from breast surgery creating inhibition of the muscles of the shoulder and neck!
Thanks Mat for the suggestion!
Save the tatas babe! Good for you, and I invite you to check out my page for my participation in the run to help women keep their tatas healthy… I am sure you agree how important this is! If you feel like helping me out, or want more info to post something about this on your blog, email me!
Going to check it out Amy!! Thanks for the info.
How do I find Amy’s page?